Perspective

Hey there.

   Something on my mind as of.... this entire day. Each and every one of us are different from the next person. We may have a lot in common with a certain person or group; or we may not. Nevertheless, we are all different. Things effect each one of us differently. I'm a writer so if I see you throwing around a book, bending the pages, getting crumbs in it, that will upset me slightly. For those of you who are not writers(or really don't care) you're sitting there reading this thinking "its just a book". And both of us are right to feel the way we feel because those feelings are ours to have. And because we are different!

    

  My thing is, just because you don't agree with someone doesn't make what you feel more important or better then that persons feelings or opinions. One thing that drives me nuts is when people just through out their two cents when you didn't ask for it. Then they judge you because you don't feel how they feel.

   EXCUSE ME FOR BEING ME. Sorry I'm a strong woman and can form my own opinion and feelings about EVERYTHING.

  You always have to think about other people. Okay you don't have too, you could be a selfless jerk and just think about yourself.  But( I feel) its a smart thing to think about other peoples feelings. I always try to put myself in their shoes and thats hard because I'm so in touch with my own feelings. I know why I feel how I feel on most situations. I do try to remind myself that people are different then me and just because they don't agree with how I feel, doesn't mean I'm wrong. It doesn't mean they are wrong either. It just means we are different! Just means we have different perspectives on things.

 Just wanted to throw this out there for no certain reason to be honst. Just felt like sharing. Goodnight Blogger. Stay blessed. Be easy.

    -Mz J

 

    

Can I brag?

Hey guys!

So as you can see, this blog doesn't always stay on the same topic. I jump around mostly based on what I'm feeling at that exact moment I've decided to write. Today I'm feelin' like bragging on my man. I know you've heard me complain about the distance, and however, those complaints are still valid, he does a good job at helping me get through it. He is pretty much perfect----perfect for me.

I mean, look at how he looks at me! Isn't it wonderful? I've never had a man treat me the way he does. He is so thoughtful even though I can be such a handful. =) He never has given up on me. Better yet, hes never given up on US. And that is one of the MANY reasons why each day I fall more and more in love with him. He does so much for me he doesn't even realize it. I honestly never thought I'd find a love like this, but I have! I thank God everyday for giving me him. God knew what we both needed. He knew we had both been hurt and were on the verge of giving up on love. He knew what we were both worth and knew who would notice it as well.

He has the cutest son in the ENTIRE WORLD!!! I just love this kid to death! I've always wanted to be a mother (for the LONGEST time). No real reason other then I just love kids. 25 years later, its still not a part of Gods plan for me to become a mother. (Well I am a fur mom but you know what I mean!) Thats why God gave me them. He told me to love this little boy like I've never loved any other child. I plan on doing just that!!!! I love my little family =)