However I do not agree with cheating. I had to end my marriage because of cheating;my childhood had cheating in it and then my marriage had cheating in it. I despise cheating!
When I'm in a relationship with somebody I'm completely loyal to the person, I'm all about that person. They are all over my phone, all over my social media sites,I talk about them to everybody,everybody knows I'm in a relationship. I have no desire to ever cheat on anyone. Hell I even feel guilty for seeing somebody that I think is attractive!!!
My thing is -why waste somebody's time if you really don't want to be with them ?why marry them ?why I have kids with them ? why spending years with this person when you're just going to cheat on them? I know things happen, life changes , people change. Maybe you fall out of love with that person, maybe they become somebody that you don't like and that is all fine but don't cheat on them! Talk to them about it if they won't change or don't fix the issue then leave point and simple leave!
If you've never been cheated on I hope you never do get cheated on because it is something terrible to go through. The feeling of being betrayed, of the lies,of the secrets- it's just uncalled for. And not only that, but if you get cheated on enough or bad enough then It can mess up future relationships. You've always got to question that future person's actions and everything it is ridiculous!
So if you feel like cheating think about this : do you have kids ? do you have a son or daughter ? what is going to happen when they grow up and someone breaks their heart because they cheated on them ? how is that going to make you feel because that's exactly what you're doing to the person that you cheated on or thinking about cheating on. Just don't do it ! Be an adult talk about the issues. It's not rocket science it's common sense!!!!
That's enough for today. Be easy,say blessed.
-Mz J
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